Maintain Your Mentoring Relationship

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Securing the right mentor is a major hurdle, but maintaining the relationship can be just as challenging. To keep the mentoring relationship going, try these three things:

  • Provide structure. Set up regular meetings with agendas so your conversations don’t degenerate into aimless chitchat. Make sure each meeting moves you toward your goals.
  • Expect rigor. If your mentor doesn’t provide regular assignments, ask for them, and work them into your agendas.
  • Know when to move on. Once you’ve achieved your goals, move on before the law of diminishing returns kicks in. But stay in touch. Your mentor may become a sponsor who advocates for you even once your formal relationship ends.

Adapted from Guide to Getting the Mentoring You Need.

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